ワーパパの本音と苦悩

Origin

My wife, who is prohibited from attending drinking parties due to her increased corona, attended a friend's wedding (in a neighboring prefecture) with alcohol and by public transportation, with only her.
A few days before that (the day before), I refused to go to a drinking party to greet a business associate who was changing jobs.
Also, a few months prior to that, my wife made an anonymous phone call to my office during the work period to appeal to the person in the general affairs department who received the call to cancel my drinking party.

My wife's argument

The wedding was a celebration and a good measure to attend.
Participation in drinking is outrageous.
You should do your own research on the difference between proper measures for weddings and just drinking parties that are not proper measures.

The Consequences

Wife: "When I told her I would attend the wedding with alcohol, she told me to withdraw my husband's absolute nonparticipation in the drinking party, which I cannot do."
Me: "What difference does it make, isn't it strange?"
My wife said, "The wedding is a celebration and we are taking proper measures."
I said, "What measures?"
My wife said, "You should find out for yourself."
She broke off the conversation and tried to walk away.
I said, "Listen to me properly," and grabbed her shoulders, face, and neck.
My wife "I strangled him, it's DV."
I said, "I'm sorry about that."
I said, "I'm sorry about that."
After a while, I left the room.
After a while, I returned to the living room.
My wife said, "If you are so irritated, go to bed."
I said, "That's my line. I want you to go to bed early."
My wife "You want me to go away?"
I "Yes."
My wife, "I'll make a note that you want me to disappear. I'll record it." Recording begins
My wife says, "I want you to go to sleep as soon as possible. I tell her what happened above, etc."
My wife says, "That's not what I meant. Tell me again what you said you want me to disappear."
I "What? I didn't say I wanted her to simply disappear.
After that, we were unable to come to an agreement, and I left this note.